Bench Notice

The spreading of rumors and gossip is something that starts when kids are young. As an administrator at a high school most of my problems with students was because of the spreading of gossip. Fights and arguments would erupt that involved only part of a story with the fuse being lit by someone who  wasn’t even involved. The student who didn’t even have a dog in the fight would just sit back and watch the fireworks. This behavior is learned from parents and other adults as they communicate with each other about their own drama driven life.

My point here to adults is watch what you say and who you say it to. Don’t talk about others. Don’t share sensitive information about yourself. Even if you have an understanding with someone that the information is sensitive don’t take for granted that it won’t be shared. Be a good example and a positive role model to your children and students. Don’t cast judgement on others by spreading rumors or gossiping about circumstances of which the outcome has nothing to do with you.